Forgot my password

[Jenny]

I have tried occasionally to post the odd snippet to the site but couldn't remember my password.
No , I am not going ga ga but I have several passwords for other things and honestly couldn't remember it .

When I saw the new postings I thought I'd try again and amazingly the site must have recognized my computer and let me in .

Sadly my lovely husband passed away in January last year and I miss him very much , but life has to go on .
I now have a great stepgrandson who is absolutely gorgeous and another one due before Christmas.
As they said in our younger days " The world is going to hell in a handcart " and I am glad that I was born just after WW2 ended and have lived through , probably one of the best times in history , to have been a girl from a working class background .

Jenny Bee as was

[Kevin]

I was very sorry to hear your news about Adrian Jenny. You were lucky to have so many years and 'projects' together and you must miss him tremendously.

[Jenny]

I had just read your post and the next thing that I read on facebook after I read it was the following

A marriage truth nobody mentions:
You'll fall in and out of love with the same person repeatedly.
The falling out is normal.
The falling back in is the choice. Most people leave during the out phase.
Long marriages aren't one love story — they're multiple love stories with the same person.
People assume that if they ever stop feeling in love, the relationship is over.
But what they don’t realize is that love isn’t a constant emotion — it’s a cycle.
Some seasons feel like fireworks, some feel like quiet routine, and some feel like distance.
You may go from passion to partnership, from butterflies to battles,
and back to deep comfort again.
That doesn’t mean it’s failing — it means it’s evolving.
True commitment isn’t proven during the “in love” phase.
It’s proven during the silent, confusing, emotionally distant seasons — when you choose to stay, communicate, grow, and water the connection again instead of assuming it died.
The strongest couples don’t avoid the “out” phase — they survive it.
They sit through the discomfort, they soften their ego, they choose curiosity over blame. They learn each other again at different ages, through changing dreams and difficult seasons.
They understand that love is not a permanent feeling, but a repeated decision.
Real marriage isn’t just one love story — it’s many different love stories, rewritten with the same person, over and over, as you both evolve. That’s what makes it rare.
That’s what makes it beautiful.

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I Couldn't have put it better than that .

[Jenny]

Happy to see that Santa is on his way despite all the rough weather .